Private is private - or should be.

A story which has been running for some weeks in the local press concerns the manager of a care-home for the elderly who, out of hours, becomes "Miss Whiplash" in her adjoining home, catering to those who are into SM and bondage. As a result of this becoming known, she is under investigation by the administrators of the care home, and may well lose her job. An under-cover reporter has written articles giving a detailed description of just what goes on. But one of these articles does make the point that she is much loved and respected in her role as manager of the home - so am I alone in thinking that, if that is the case, what the hell does it matter what she does in her own time in her own house?